How to be human, not happy
Because it’s not about always being happy, it’s about welcoming every emotion as part of being human. I got a little annoyed a few weeks ago when I saw yet another person selling happiness. Our society is so focused on positive happiness: always being happy, always smiling, chasing amazing experiences, vacations, weekends… Most of us are still trying to make more money than we need, buy a house, buy more stuff, have kids, drive nice cars… I’m not saying it’s easy to let go of those desires. I want money and vacations too. Courses that promise happiness, the best life, relief in a two-hour workshop, or “life-changing experiences” annoy me in two ways: they sell the impossible, they’re overly optimistic, unrealistic, and unreasonable, all in such a limited time. Yet, as...